Should You Have To Fight Yourself For Soulmates?

The majority of people in the world fight to be accepted.

I, myself, have been guilty of trying to fit into a mould, because I am, by nature, a sociable person and I enjoy being connected to people. Deep down, I think we are all like that.

I've tried so many times in my 27 years of being alive on this earth to act like anything other than who I am at my core, just so I can experience that enthralling, inspiring connection with someone - but more often than not, the people I've tried to connect with, the only ones who have been within my range, have been the ones that do not match my soul. And that is because I have been trying, like everyone else, sadly, on this earth, to detach myself from my soul, in order to be accepted by another soul.

If you don't relate to what I'm talking about, then feel free to stop reading this blog post, but if you DO sincerely relate to what I'm talking about, then read on...

Generally, I am a happy sort of person: I was happiest in my early childhood, when I was around 5 years old; I didn't have too many different expectations of life, I just wanted to be able to live life with the same loving people I had around me (a.k.a. my family). My favourite thing to do around that age was to make-believe I was a character from a film and act out scenes, by myself; I had a wicked imagination. I enjoyed having friends round for tea, but most of the time, I wouldn't relate to them nearly so much as I related to my family. I felt out of place within the world. So for the majority of my childhood and adolescence, I spent my time with my family; I learnt a lot from them, about who I am spiritually.

Towards my late teens I experienced a shocking, traumatic loss, that of a friend who misunderstood me as a human being - painting me with the same brush they painted a lot of the people they had met in the world - they abandoned me all of a sudden, and that was when I had to come to terms with the fact that I wasn't on the same spiritual vibration as the person who I had thought was my best friend; however, that icy cold rejection was enough to plague me with the desire to prove that I could make lasting connections with people without being abandoned like so... since that point in 2010, I've been trying to change who I am, to hide my core self, so as to attract people and keep them there, but I had no idea this was what I was doing - I thought I deserved to have any friend I wanted, but not until very recently, did I truly understand that I cannot just get what I want. And neither can anyone else in the world.

What you want has to match up with who you are at your core. And if you aren't willing to accept yourself for your uniqueness and not try to fit yourself into a tight box, then your desires will not reflect what your soul needs. It is to do with soul compatibility; you cannot change it.

So I wish to urge everyone who reads this blog post to get in touch with themselves and accept that their soul has a compatibility level that needs to be acknowledged and embraced wholeheartedly. You do not have to try very hard to attract what you truly deserve; just stop, be still and listen to your soul.

TOO MANY PEOPLE are being encouraged to let go of their core selves to be accepted into a strict society, to ignore certain aspects of their divine essence for the sake of being UNDERSTOOD. And those people are becoming lost and confused. I've been down so many dead-ends because I've not understood the importance of accepting and EMBRACING who I am at my core. I do not have to label who I am just so the world can understand what or who I am; they should make the effort to get to know me and not be lazy; I should raise the bar, I should RESPECT MYSELF 110% so that everyone else around me who deserves to connect with me will go out of their way to do so.

The fact is I've been making too much of an effort for those who don't make an effort for me, for the sake of being loved and having a connection with somebody. You shouldn't have to do that for ANYBODY, especially your SOULMATE. So just remember... that you are individual and unique, and you have the right to LOVE YOURSELF as you are: it's the only way to get what you deserve in life.

Why You Should ALWAYS Feed Your Soul & How You Can Do This!

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As the title suggests, Why should you feed your soul and how is this done?

Well, I have learnt that there are many reasons why you should, and likewise, many ways you can "feed your soul".

The other day I found myself feeling very low for some reason - this can be considered very normal, but deep down I knew there was something off and I shouldn't be feeling this way - DIET could possibly come into it; I am aware of the notion that 'you are what you eat' and if you consume rubbish then you will feel rubbish at the end of the day. But my spirit was telling me that that was NOT the only reason...

Very recently I've noticed I've been holding back on doing a lot of things that my heart wants me to do... Have you ever watched the short animated movie from 'Moana', called 'Inner Workings'? In the movie there is this guy and you are introduced to his morning rituals before he gets to work, and you see that his brain tells him what to do a lot of the time, while his heart is contradicting his brain and wanting him to do other things. Gradually, throughout the day, the more his brain rejects the things that his heart desperately wants, he starts to feel more depressed... until he is unable to even do his work. I relate to this character a lot. In fact, I would say it is the story of my life. When your brain tells you to stop following your heart, it does something to your morale whether you want to notice it or not. And the other day I was feeling it. BIG TIME.

So this is WHY you should feed your soul every day. You only need to treat yourself to one thing your heart wants - whether it's a chocolate muffin you have been craving, or those new headphones you've been needing for ages to listen to your favourite music on your iPod - and do this daily. I don't care how much you've got left in your bank, and it doesn't have to be costly... you could treat yourself in the sense of watching a pure disney movie you already have on dvd. You see what I'm saying? Instead of buying the cheap and unsatisfying, buy yourself what your soul needs to feel like this life is worth living! You might as well invest in yourself, invest in your happiness! No one else can tell you what you need more. If you fancy a Dominos pizza, if you fancy writing an enjoyable book just for yourself, if you want to just connect with nature or go for a trip to your favourite place in the world - go do it! Because also, chances are, it will open up doors for you in ways you never could, had you just boringly followed your head instead of your heart.

This is my challenge for you:

Starting today (the day you read this blog post), for a whole week (7 days), do one positive thing that feeds your soul and makes you feel like you are living for yourself rather than for others. Tell me in the comments below what you have done and how it made you feel afterwards. Complete this challenge and I wonder how many of you come out of this feeling like the world is a brighter place! 😄🌈🌅 

I assure you you will want to do this again and again and you won't want to stop FEEDING YOUR SOUL.